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Wedding Photography: Common Mistakes and How to Avoid Them


Your wedding day is a chapter of your life you’ll relive time and time again through your photos. Every glance, every laugh, every quiet moment between the two of you—it all comes together to create a visual narrative as unique as your relationship. But here’s the thing: creating those stunning, timeless images doesn’t happen by accident.


Over the years, I’ve learned that even the most beautifully planned weddings can encounter challenges when it comes to photography. The good news? A little guidance can help you avoid these common pitfalls, ensuring your wedding gallery captures the joy, elegance, and emotion of your day. So, grab your coffee (or a glass of bubbly!), and let’s dive into how to make your wedding photos truly unforgettable.



 

1. Underestimating the Importance of Pre-Wedding Communication


Your wedding day is filled with once-in-a-lifetime moments. To capture them authentically, I need to understand your vision—what’s most important to you, what's unique about you two, your story, and what moments you don’t want to miss.


How to avoid it: Think of me as your partner in this process. Before the big day, we’ll have a conversation (or two!) where we discuss every detail, from your must-have family groupings to the little moments you want immortalized—like the tearful hug from your dad or your best friend’s toast. This is where we align on expectations so I can deliver the gallery of your dreams.



 


2. Skipping the Engagement Session


An engagement session isn’t just about pretty pictures; it’s about connection. This is our chance to get to know each other, to let you get comfortable in front of the camera, and to celebrate the excitement leading up to your wedding day.


How to avoid it: Treat your engagement session as a mini-rehearsal for your wedding portraits. You’ll walk away feeling confident, knowing what to expect, and with gorgeous photos that can double as save-the-dates or décor for your reception.



 


3. Overlooking Lighting and Venue Details


Lighting is the secret ingredient to breathtaking photos. A stunning venue can lose its magic if we’re battling harsh midday light or dim reception halls without proper planning.


How to avoid it: As your photographer, I’ll help you build a timeline that works with the light—not against it. Whether it’s scheduling your ceremony during golden hour or adding soft, romantic uplighting to your reception, these small adjustments elevate your images to the next level.



 

4. Rushing the Timeline


The moments before you say “I do” should feel exciting—not rushed. Yet so often, couples find themselves scrambling because they didn’t leave enough time for key moments, like getting ready, individual and couples' portraits, or family/group photos.


How to avoid it: Together, we’ll craft a detailed timeline that leaves plenty of room for the moments that matter. From the quiet excitement of getting ready to the celebratory champagne toast with your wedding party, every part of your day deserves to be savored.



 

5. Neglecting Family Photo Planning


Family/Group photos are often one of the most chaotic parts of the day—unless we have a plan. Without a clear list, it’s easy to miss a grouping or spend more time than necessary rounding people up.


How to avoid it: Provide me with a list of specific family groupings ahead of time, and we’ll move through them with ease. I’ll even help organize and streamline the process so you can get back to enjoying your time at cocktail hour with your guests.



 


6. Ignoring the Importance of Backup Plans


Sometimes the unexpected brings the most memorable moments. A misty drizzle, a dramatic gust of wind, or even an unexpected change of location can add personality and depth to your wedding day story.


How to avoid it: Think of me as your creative problem-solver. We’ll brainstorm chic, practical solutions like elegant shawls for chilly weather, rubber boots for outdoor adventures, or twinkle-lit tents for added ambiance. Trust me, with the right mindset and preparation, the unexpected can feel magical.



 


7. Forgetting the Details


It’s easy to focus on the big-picture moments, but the tiny details—the handwritten vows, the ribbon wrapped around your bouquet, or the heirloom ring you’re wearing—carry so much of your wedding’s heart and soul.


How to avoid it: Gather your meaningful keepsakes—your invitation suite, rings, a special handkerchief, or even a perfume bottle—and set them aside for me to photograph. These little treasures, when woven into your gallery, will beautifully reflect the hard work, attention to detail, and heartfelt intention you poured into your day of celebration.



 


8. Not Being Fully Present


It’s easy to get caught up in the logistics or feel self-conscious in front of the camera, but the most breathtaking photos happen when you let go and live in the moment.


How to avoid it: Trust me; I got you covered. Slow down, hold hands, and steal a few moments together throughout the day. I’ll guide you when needed and give you space when the moment calls for it. Lean into the joy, embrace the unexpected, and remember—this day is about you. When you focus on each other, your connection will light up every frame.



 


9. Hiring Based on Price Alone


Think of your wedding photographer as more than just a vendor—they’re an integral part of your celebration. From helping you feel confident in front of the camera to capturing those in-between moments you didn’t even know were happening, we play a vital role in making your day feel seamless and memorable.


How to avoid it: Select a photographer who feels like a trusted friend, someone you can rely on for both creative direction and emotional support. This connection allows us to capture the true essence of your day—photos filled with joy, authenticity, and the story of your love.



 


10. Forgetting About Post-Wedding Keepsakes


The magic of your wedding deserves to be celebrated, not buried in a digital archive. Your photos should evoke smiles, tears, and love each time you see them—not just when you happen to scroll through an old folder.


How to avoid it: Let’s design keepsakes that honor your story. Imagine flipping through your wedding album with your grandchildren or seeing your favorite photo framed in your entryway—a beautiful daily reminder of your love and the promises you made.


 

At Jaclyn Kushner Photography, my goal is to make your wedding day not just beautiful, but effortless. By avoiding these common mistakes, we’ll create a gallery that reflects your love story in all its beauty and authenticity.


Ready to take the next step? Let’s schedule a consultation and start planning the wedding photos you’ve been dreaming of.

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