Setting Your Family Up for a Smooth & Fun Photo Session
Kids will be kids—there’s no avoiding that!
But with a little preparation, you can help set them up
for a stress-free, enjoyable session.
Well Rested & Well Fed
No one is at their best when they’re
tired and hangry—kids included!
Making sure your little ones are well-rested
and have full bellies before your session
is one of the best ways to set the tone for a happy,
cooperative experience.
Comfortable, Well-Fitted Clothing
Uncomfortable outfits = cranky kids.
Clothes that are too tight or shoes that slip off
can quickly lead to frustration
—and we all know how that can go!
Choose outfits that are soft, breathable,
and fit well so your child feels
comfortable moving around.
Also, consider the weather
and dress accordingly.
It never hurts to have a backup outfit
in case of spills, accidents,
or unexpected weather shifts!
Talk About Me Like a Friend
Kids are naturally cautious around new people,
and the last thing we want is for
them to feel shy or uneasy.
Before your session, introduce me as a friend
—not just a photographer.
Talking about how much fun
we’ll have together
makes a big difference
in helping them feel comfortable
when we meet!
Set Clear Expectations
Kids do best
when they
know what to expect.
Before your session,
let them know
we’ll take lots of different photos
—some with the whole family,
some with just Mom,
some with siblings,
and a few solo shots too.
Since they’re used
to quick phone snaps,
kids often think one photo is all it takes.
Giving them a little heads-up
makes the process smoother
(and way more fun)!
Arrive Early
I totally get that life is busy,
but if you can, arrive a little early
to give your kids time to settle in.
This is especially helpful for
kids who are shy or slow to warm up
—letting them explore the space
for a few minutes before we start
can work wonders for their confidence
and comfort level!
Let Them Be Themselves
No need to practice stiff poses
or forced smiles.
The best photos come from
kids being their authentic,
playful selves.
The belly laughs, the goofy faces,
the little moments of curiosity
—that’s where the magic is.
And don’t worry
—I actually want them
to be a little mischievous!
Don’t Force It
The quickest way to shut a kid down?
Forcing them to participate.
Instead, I love to give them choices
throughout the session
so they feel like
they are part of the experience.
For example:
"Do you want to sit on this blanket
or stand by that tree?"
It’s a simple shift,
but it empowers them
and makes them
way more likely to engage!
Take Breaks When Needed
Sometimes, kids just need a breather
—and that’s totally okay.
A quick snack (something non-messy!)
or a sip of water
can help reset their energy
and keep the session
feeling light and fun.
Relax & Enjoy the Moment
This one’s for you, parents—especially you, Mom!
I know you want everything to go perfectly,
but trust me,
the best moments happen
when you’re relaxed and present.
Your kids mirror your energy
—so the more fun you’re having,
the more fun they’ll have.
I promise, we’ll capture the beautiful,
natural moments you’re hoping for.
Looking Forward to Your Session!
I hope these tips help you feel prepared and
excited for your upcoming family session.
Can’t wait to capture these special moments for you!
Ready to book?